It’s all about the Lincolns

Last December, I read about the five-dollar savings plan. It goes like this: Every time you find yourself with a five-dollar bill in your possession, you set it aside instead of spending it. At the end of the year, you use the money you’ve saved for either a big purchase or to do something you wouldn’t normally spend the money to do.

I was skeptical as to whether or not this would work for me, mainly because I hardly ever use cash. I pay with credit or debit cards for everything from groceries to gasoline. I go to the ATM for pocket money only once or twice a month. And yet. . .I was curious.

So, starting at the beginning of January, I started putting aside (almost) every five-dollar bill I acquired. And my pile started to grow.

In one year, with no help from my husband or my kids, I saved 70 five-dollar bills.

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Yup, that is $350 right there. Not bad, eh?

I love that this didn’t feel like a “savings plan” at all (and, don’t get me wrong, this is NOT a financially sound way to really save money as there is no interest earned when the money is just kept in an envelope!).  

To make this an even bigger deal, I could get the whole family involved and put any Lincolns saved each week into an interest-earning savings account. If we had a big goal that was worth saving for a few years, we might end up with a good chunk of it paid for without really trying.

So, yeah, I was skeptical at the start of 2011. But when we surprise our kids with a special weekend excursion this winter, I think we’ll all feel like this was a worthwhile experiment.

Update: this post still gets  a ton of traffic (hi Pinterest people!), so I thought I’d update where we ended up. In May 2013, we took a cruise, and I counted up the $5 bills I’d saved. Keep in mind that I’d gotten very lazy about saving every $5 bill, often using my stash when I needed a little cash quickly. But, even with that, I had almost $500 in “extra money” to spend. It was definitely a nice little surprise and didn’t hurt to save it at all. I have a good friend who also did this for only a year and saved over $1,100 toward their family vacation!

A Fairly Odd Review of 2011

I just read a meme from Nan called The Year That Was and since I’d rather write about 2011 than talk about how Jilly was throwing up last night, I’m going with her meme. 


First though. . .some perspective: In 2011, I blogged only 63 times which is about half the number of posts I wrote in ’08 and ’09, and about 40% of the total in ’10. My focus was instead on my job and in trying to save our homeschooling life. I think this was the right thing to do, but I miss this space and am going to try to work a little harder at it in 2012.


But before looking forward to 2012? A review.


In 2011, what was the. . .


. . .most beautiful post (on your blog)?
When the Storm Passes
A very hard post to write, but one of those imperfect moments in parenting that will stick with me forever.


. . .most popular post (on your blog)?
Waiting Is The Hardest Part
This post about waiting for the results of my ten-year-old’s milk allergy test was by far the most popular post in 2011. And though she still hates milk, she gives two thumbs up to any baked good she’s met so far. (that’s my girl!)


. . .most controversial post (on your blog)?
Breaking Up Is Hard To Do
I should have known that a post about why we may quit homeschooling would generate strong feelings. And while this wasn’t “controversial” in the sense that I was fighting with commenters (I don’t really “do” that kind of controversy), it was filled with strong emotion which I so very appreciated hearing at that very difficult crossroads.


. . .most helpful post (on your blog)?
Wordless Wednesday: Through the Looking Glass

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Though not instructional per se, I love looking at the photos of Jilly’s Alice in Wonderland party. The included links will hopefully help others create a similar party themselves. Way more affordable than renting out that smelly gymnastics studio!


. . .post whose success surprised you?
Facebook Ate My Blog
With only one measly comment, this post about why I haven’t been blogging generated way more traffic than I expected (#2 in traffic this year!). 

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If I’m not basing “success” on traffic numbers alone, I’d say this photo of my son with his broken LEGO contraption got a lot more attention than I expected.


. . .post that you feel didn’t get the attention it deserved?
Oh Meme, Oh My
Last year’s meme took forever to write, but just wasn’t all that popular. One would think I’d learn from this. . .


. . .post that made you most proud?
Do You Untag Ugly Photos?

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I couldn’t have written this post twenty years ago—I would’ve untagged the ugly photo and pretended it never happened. I suppose being able to accept who I am in my skin, right now, is growth. And that does feel good.


Here’s to more growth in 2012! Happy New Year!

Mommy and her laptop, sitting in a tree. . .

If there is one ugly truth about myself, it’s that I’m on this laptop far too much. 


I use this computer for work, and to shop for everything but groceries (though I have done that before). I use it to research what we’re having for dinner and to get materials for the class I’m teaching in our next homeschool coop session. I have three email accounts to check, and Facebook and Twitter feeds that I try to pop on at least once a day (okay, 50).


But it is way too easy to get sucked into a vortex. Just one more post to read. Shoot, work needs this tomorrow, I’ll do it now. Oh. . .Big Store X is having a huuuuge sale, and I really should pick up some of their {insert product here}. 


Here’s the thing though: My house is not falling apart from filth. The laundry is done (and put away). I cook three meals a day, and they are (almost) always nutritionally sound. My dog is walked (and tired) (which counts as my exercise, right?) My marriage isn’t falling apart (right honey???). My legs are shaved. I read stories to the kids at bedtime and don’t check my iPhone as I do it. My kids aren’t running wild, beating small animals and setting fires. In fact, they are great kids.


The only thing that bugs me about the time I spend online is how it looks to the kids. Will they remember mom as the lady with the laptop in the kitchen clicking away? Or will they remember her as the one who took them to their million activities? Who kicked their butt dancing to The Chemical Brothers on Just Dance 3? Who helped them put away their 1,001 American Girl accessories? (oy) Who sat with them as they tried to remember the difference between an adjective and an adverb and somehow didn’t scream?


I’m debating setting a timer. Working only when they are asleep (a tricky proposition as they stay up later and later). Maybe only going online between certain hours. 


Or cutting myself some slack and stop worrying about this. 2012 as the year of less self-imposed guilt? Sounds pretty nice to me.